self-fulfilling prophecy

Sometimes when people hurt so bad, they tend to be too careful and too hard to open to others. One day they may meet some nice persons, they could be in love, they could be great friends.

But because of the painful history, the person may think," I am gonna lose the love and the friend one day or another" so he withdraw his love and friendship. One day, the friend or the love finally get so tired and decide to leave since they will never have the person's full and real love.

And the person say to himself,"See? I know they are gonna leave me, fortunately I didn't really jump in that relationship too deep..."

Well, dude, it's so called self-fulfilling prophecy and you are the only one could break that shit!